Lie to me.

Plain and simple.  If you lie, open or not, it’s cheating.

If I ask you not to see someone for a damned good reason and you do it behind my back,  it’s cheating.

If you make her name something stupid in your phone, it’s turned into blatant lying, and it’s cheating.

If you keep things from me, it’s a lie of omission, and it’s cheating.

This is not a hard concept, friends.

If you don’t want to lose my trust, my respect, and my loyalty, don’t lie to me.  It’s cheating.